It's nelson NZ, I checked his profile, cheating huh?

Never been to Nelson Lancashire, been to Colne Lancashire though, me mums home town.
Have been to Nelson NZ, that my home town.
2nd sons middle name is Nelson so I must have liked it, not enough to be the first though!
Actually it's also his great grandads name, and Lord Nelson's name, surname albeit.

I'm picking it's an R.